Many people are extremely uncomfortable when others are happy. They may try to cover it up with a polite mask, but that’s just a way of hiding their dislike. And this discomfort can become even more intense when they feel compelled to match the other person’s energy level.
It’s human nature to want to avoid discomfort whenever possible, so it’s normal for people to try to avoid experiencing unpleasant emotions. But there’s another reason why someone might intentionally try to decrease the energy level of others: they don’t like it when others are happy or excited because their own level of happiness and excitement is lower than that of the other person. They don’t like not being the center of attention or in control of those around them.
I’m talking about negative emotions like boredom, apathy, frustration, irritation, anger, or resentment.
If you find yourself thinking something like, “I don’t like this person because he/she is too happy,” or because other people like them. You might be able to relate to this situation because you might have felt uncomfortable at times when other people were happy around you.
When people are excessively nice or happy (or when they act very different than usual), it can trigger anxiety in us. It’s normal to feel anxious when you encounter someone who is very different than you. But it’s also normal to be anxious in any situation where there is a significant change or uncertainty. This is because anxiety helps our minds cope with change. It prepares us for something unexpected by heightening our senses and giving us more energy.
When a person with a high vibration is around someone with low vibration, the qualities of one will change the other.
A high-vibration person can be in a room with a low-vibration person and feel uncomfortable because their energy is being drained. Once you understand that people around you affect your energy things get simple and you have a choice to make.
Know your Energy when you walk into a room. Never be afraid to walk out of a room either.
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